Why Good Women Are So Hard to Find (It's Not What You Think)

John, how do I find a good woman?" I get this question in my comments over and over. Today I'm going to tell you why it's the wrong question. Men have been asking this for thousands of years across every culture and religion — and most still get it catastrophically wrong. Not because women are the problem, but because you're not looking for a woman at all. You're looking for a relationship. And that's a completely different problem with a completely different solution. In this episode of Life 2.0, I break down the process most men skip entirely: how to actually evaluate a relationship before it costs you your life savings, your house, and your peace. In this video: → Why "finding a good woman" is the wrong question — and what you should be asking instead → Charlie Munger said the most important financial decision of your life isn't a stock. It's this. → Why most men are genuinely incompetent at this (and why that's not an insult) → The known knowns / unknown unknowns framework I use to break relationships down → The uncomfortable truth: you don't get what you want out of life, you get what you are → Why your appearance matters far less than how you feel about your appearance → How to build your deal-breaker list — addition by subtraction → Treating a date like a job interview (you're hiring, she's applying) → The one family red flag that predicts she'll leave you when things get hard → Debt: red flag or yellow flag? → Why marriage turns up the heat and forces every impurity to the surface → Why your penis is not your friend → The line that ends the video: you can't find the woman you want until you become the man you need to be If you're dating, divorced, or about to make the biggest decision of your financial and emotional life — watch this one all the way through. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 — The question I get most 0:25 — You're asking the wrong thing 2:40 — The most important financial decision of your life 4:10 — What do you know you know? 7:50 — What are you bringing to the table? 8:49 — Relationships are mirrors: You Get What You ARE! 10:17 -- Fear will mess with you 11:20 — Your looks matter less than you think 14:28 — Are you financially ready for a relationship? 15:30 — Stealing sex vs. stealing resources 18:00 — Building your deal-breaker list 21:15 — The family red flag 22:05 — Debt: red flag or yellow flag? 24:25 — The unknown unknowns 26:27 — Listen and take notes 28:30 -- Your Penis Is Not Your Friend! 29:16 — Treat it like an investment 30:51 — Become the man you need to be first 💬 Comment below: what's the one thing on your absolute deal-breaker list? 📘 Book a free 15-minute session + get the book: johnsgriffin.com Everything in this video — divorce, relationships, Life 2.0 — compiled into a 200-page book for about $10. 👕 Life 2.0 gear and the new Deboo shirts are in the shop. 🔔 Subscribe for honest, no-nonsense conversations about dating, marriage, divorce, and rebuilding — for men who want stronger relationships, not bitterness. #Life20 #DatingAdviceForMen #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageAdvice #MenOver40 #DatingAfterDivorce #HighValueMan #SelfImprovementForMen #RedFlags #MensMentalHealth Join The Life 2.0 Community: johnsgriffin.com You can get Life 2.0 merchandise featuring Debu the dog here: https://johnsgriffin.com/shop Find all the equipment I use at my Amazon Store: https://a.co/d/0fWwzY5Z Sign Up for Coaching Today or grab a copy of my book at https://johnsgriffin.com https://john-griffin-shop.fourthwall.com For Life 2.0 Merchandise! APPLE POD CASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/john-griffin-life-2-0/id1850311400 SPOTIFY POD CASTS: https://open.spotify.com/show/64h436l3vdzLJba9O76wcS?si=0Ign58gGSo2TV30fuNRS_g Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGeYqbpkEVeYu_sRAGWGwpQ/join Harness Buddy dog harness as seen on Shelby and Jax: https://harnessbuddy.com/products/harnessbuddy?ref=qclugmwe ⚠️ Disclaimer: I do not accept any liability for any loss or damage incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of watching any of my publications. You acknowledge that you use the information I provide at your own risk. Do your research. Copyright Notice: This video and my YouTube channel contain dialogue, music, and images that are the Intellectual Property of John Griffin, (Life 2.0) Health Coach & Personal Trainer. Please contact John Griffin if you wish to use this content in any way. Any unauthorized use of this content will be a violation of my copyright. © John Griffin, Coach www.johnsgriffin.com

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