This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee’s relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jealousy, emotional activation, reconnection rituals, and why feeling safe matters more than pretending non-monogamy is effortless. Then the conversation takes a completely unhinged turn with a Lincoln Tunnel emergency that somehow becomes kinky, hilarious, and weirdly romantic.
00:00
Introduction to BDSM negotiation and self-discovery
02:06
Evolution of the relationship and exploring boundaries
03:59
Scenes with multiple partners and dynamic roles
06:52
Negotiation questions and building anticipation
10:08
Handling fears, desires, and boundaries
15:05
The importance of communication and group chats
20:03
Scene construction and planning
28:07
The emotional and physical aspects of BDSM scenes
35:04
Voyeurism, watching, and emotional safety
42:58
Handling jealousy and non-monogamy
49:51
Community, connection, and personal growth
01:00:05
Final thoughts and advice for beginners
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